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This is Not Disneyland, But You Are Acting a Little Goofy:Ah, Disneyland Parenting, a topic that is so common in my office, and yet so difficult for parents to avoid. This reaction to divorce can be a damaging process that creates long term problems for the entire family and future families. Hopefully, you have already read the article on meeting your emotional needs through the children, because this issue is a part of that process.It is amazing how often I see this problem in my office, and rarely is it the reason why people seek out a counselor.Why?Because most parents who engage in Disneylandparenting have no idea it is a problem.In fact, most parents justify this type of parenting and have a lot of understandable reasons for it.keep reading>>
The Danger Zone:One of the more troubling aspects of my job is watching a parent make the mistake of meeting their emotional needs through their child or children. This is a much too common problem and the kids tend to suffer greatly from it. The problem is kids tend to hide their suffering so well it can take years for it to show itself.And to complicate matters, very often parents do not recognize this mistake as it is happening.keep reading>>
My Ex Cheated. How Do I Keep My Children from Being Exposed to the New Love Interest?: I’ve heard it over and over in my practice. A marriage that ends due to infidelity poses some painful obstacles to healthy divorce. One such problem is that of exposing the children to the new love interest too quickly. I recently helped a father face this dilemma and his pain was deep and wide and that pain was pushing him to create some big issues for his ex spouse. Consistently, the “victims” of infidelity feel helpless, hurt, betrayed, angry, frustrated and fearful.In particular, the victim of infidelity battles constant fear of losing their child or children in some way.keep reading>>
The Pain Game: One of the questions I often get in my practice is in regard to timing and new relationships. Typically the question is straight to the point. How long should I wait before I am involved in new relationship? Is it too soon for me to date someone? Very often, I get the question from the ex-spouse. Is it too soon for my ex to be in a serious relationship? Unfortunately, there is no good rule about new relationships.But, I do think there are some basic things to consider before taking a chance on someone new.First, let’s talk about the children. keep reading>>
To Tell the Truth… Yes or No?:What should you tell the kids about why you divorced? How much detail do they need regarding the problems that ultimately set the stage for a break up? How do you talk to them about the “why” part without making the other person look like the jerk, loser, clueless person they became? Most divorces involve one person deciding they no longer want to be married.Sometimes couple comes to a mutual decision to split up, but it is not uncommon for one person to essentially drive the process.keep reading>>
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I've spent the last 15+ years working with families and I have heard it all when it comes to divorce, divorce parenting, children and divorce and family conflicts. Unfortunately, I have heard too many nightmare stories of break ups that ultimately create very unhealthy environments for kids. Your children deserve the healthiest possible divorce you can provide and most parents need at least some help making that happen. I'm not interested in teaching you how to be a parent, but I can teach you everything you need to know to help your children through this divorce process. Whether your family has small children, young kids, or teenagers you will find the tools you need in this website to create a healthy divorce.
I have never met a parent who is perfect, parenting is about making mistakes. Too often, the overwhelming emotion that is part of divorce sets parents up to make big mistakes with their children, and often divorced and divorcing parents are unable to see their mistakes as they are happening. The key is to identify your mistakes as a parent, correct those mistakes and never make them again. Children of divorce often feel alienated and confused during the crisis of their family's break up. This can easily be over looked by parents who are caught up in the adversarial process of settling their divorce. You need help navigating this incredibly difficult time in your family's lives and divorce-parenting.com has everything you need to get through this with as little psychological damage as possible for your children.
My professional experience provides the foundation for my divorce parenting training. But, I'm not just a family therapist and divorce coach. I'm also a divorced parent. When I went through my own divorce back in 1999, I was surprised by how difficult I found the entire process. I was further surprised by how much personally experiencing divorce changed my perspective on divorce, divorce parenting and frankly family issues in general. I've logged thousands of hours working with families, children, adolescents. I've seen divorcees together and frequently included their kids in the process. This background combined with my own experiences as a divorced parent gives me a unique perspective and a lot to offer others who are surviving divorce.
I'm not a salesman, I'm a therapist and parent coach, so you'll have to decide for yourself if you need guidance with your divorce decisions. Whatever you decide, I hope you and your family experience the healthiest possible divorce. It's not Divorce that Does the Damage. It's what happens before during and after divorce that does the damage!
