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A Four Part Video Training Series.  Part 1- 8:28; Part 2- 6:56; Part 3- 8:08; Part 4- 10:59

Learn powerful strategies for improving your communication.  This series will help you learn to communicate more effectively with your ex-spouse and your children, and in other relationships as well.  Topics covered include Communication Styles, How unresolved issues escalate conflict, unlearning bad habits, the importance of a win-win relationship, Triangulation, Splitting, Specific techniques such as restatement, body language, and others, the power of "I", dangers of labels, hot buttons, judging, listening, and communication killers.

A Two Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 9:00; Part 2- 8:15

Learn concrete solutions to your ex-spouse problems.  You'll learn about the poor tactics, doomed strategies and unrealistic expectations that set us up for failure in our relationships with our ex-spouses.  On the flip side, you'll  learn about specific strategies that do work.  You'll get solid advice and instruction for moving things in the right direction and you'll be well on your way to a much healthier future with your co-parent.  Of course, there is no guarantee that your ex-spouse will make significant changes.  However, the changes you make in your approach with your ex can make a huge difference in your levels of stress, anger, hostility and happiness.

A Two Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 9:03; Part 2- 7:13

Grief is a normal and very important part of the divorce process for adults and children.  It is very important to not only understand the process of grief, but to gain enough knowledge to learn to recognize where you, your kids, and your ex may be in the grieving process. Grief plays a powerful role in common behaviors in divorce.  Phases of grief such as anger and depression are only two important factors in the recovery process.  Learn about the importance of Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Guilt, Depression, Acceptance and how those phases of grief may be impacting you and your family and what to do about it.

Beyond Basic Boot Camp: Divorce Parenting 101  $12.00  Click Here to Purchase

A Two Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 6:05; Part 2- 5:46

There are some concrete basics that every divorced or divorcing parent needs to apply to help their children experience the healthiest possible divorce.  Parenting is hard enough when their are two healthy parents at home.  Single parenting and co-parenting with someone you no longer live with is very challenging and often maddening.  Learn about Parental Deficit, Rejection, Lenience, Over-protection, Disneyland Parenting, Lack of tolerance, Sabotage, Loyalty conflict and Distraction.  Arm yourself with knowledge, then eliminate mistakes.

A Five Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 5:24; Part 2- 7:33; Part 3- 7:35; Part 4- 9:30; Part 5- 8:49

Stress is an inevitable part of divorce. At its core stress is our reaction to change.  Learn about the significance of change and how to cope with divorce, one of life's most significant changes.  This module is loaded with useful tools that anyone can apply to their situation immediately.  This is not a series of bullet point techniques.  You'll get powerful tools to help you appropriately deal with one of life's most stressful events.  Learn about the role of control and how control issues lead us to a common divorce parenting mistake, the 4 E's of stress management, The Michael Jordan Rule, Containment Strategies, the 3 Pronged Approach and more!

Beyond Basic Boot Camp: Control Anger without Being Controlled by It!  $12.00  Click Here to Purchase

A Four Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 8:42; Part 2- 6:57; Part 3- 6:29; Part 4- 8:58

Learn the Anger Formula and how it contributes to problems in divorce recovery and parenting.  Specific techniques are taught to help you gain a true sense of control of intense emotion.  The keys to anger control- Recognize it, Own it, Address it; you'll learn how to do those things in this series.  What are the internal clues to watch for?  Learn how Misinterpretation of Intent sets parents up for conflict in divorce over and over again.  Recognize dangerous assumptions that lead to anger reaction.  Learn solutions to divorce related anger mistakes.

A Seven Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 8:02; Part 2- 5:44; Part 3- 8:12; Part 4- 5:43; Part 5- 10:55; Part 6- 6:23 Part 7- 7:10

This series is loaded with information about managing child behavior and keeping your sanity as you learn to navigate the parenting process in divorce.  You'll hear some of the things kids tell their therapists; things they would never tell their parents.  You'll learn how to talk to your kids and how to help them deal with the incredibly intense feelings that accompany divorce.  Learn how small changes in your approach can make a tremendous difference in how your kids react, interact, and behave during highly emotional times.  This series is full of valuable insights into the minds of kids in the midst of divorce and crisis.

Beyond Basic Boot Camp: Eliminate Loyalty Conflict  $12.00  Click Here to Purchase

A Four Part Video Training Series. Part 1- 7:47; Part 2- 5:38; Part 3- 6:09; Part 4- 2:36

Loyalty conflict is one of the most common and damaging aspects of divorce for kids.  Some loyalty issues are inevitable, but it is important to recognize situations that put kids in the middle un-necessarily.  Too often, parents make conscious decisions to attempt to influence their child or children to side with them and this is a huge No, No in divorce parenting.  However, very often children of divorce experience intense loyalty conflicts and their parents are completely unaware of what is happening.  Don't allow yourself to ignore your child's loyalty conflict or the potential for a conflict.  Never put your kids in a position to make a choice about who is right or wrong, good or bad, better or worse, or any other choices.  Learn how conflict between parents inevitably creates a loyalty conflict for the kids.  Learn about the damaging results of criticizing the other parent.  Learn what not to do when your kids return to your house from your ex-spouse's house and get other helpful information on how to eliminate loyalty conflict.

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You'll learn about the 3 Stages of Divorce.  Stage 1-The Crisis, Stage 2- The Transition, Stage 3- The Maintenance.  Learn about Grief and how it impacts you, your ex-spouse, and your children. Learn about the Stress of Divorce and what you need to do to handle that stress in a healthy way. Learn about the Illusion of Control and how it contributes to unhealthy relationships between divorced parents.  A tremendous resource for all parents of divorce.  You will find more helpful strategies in this parenting manual than anywhere else on the web! Packed with tools, including 58 Secrets for Healthy Divorce.  Download this fantastic e-book and you get all of these highly effective tools from a divorced parent who happens to be a family therapist!  Have you ever been to a carnival?  Remember the old side show where the magician tosses daggers at his blindfolded female assistant?  Well, unfortunately many of the mistakes parents make in the midst of divorce are like throwing emotional daggers at their blindfolded children. These Daggers can prove emotionally Deadly for children and you absolutely must stop tossing them recklessly in their direction.  Finally, you have immediate access to Powerful Strategies for Helping Your Family Through the Breakup.  This guide can help you transform your divorce from a disaster in the making to the healthiest possible circumstances for a divorced family.  Anyone going through a divorce, even the best of parents, needs solid guidelines for how to do it right.  No one wants their children to be damaged in a way that creates deep wounds that cannot be healed.  The right approach to divorce parenting can prevent the children from suffering.  Divorce does not damage children.  The choices parents make before, during and after divorce determine the level of damage children experience.  Be sure your choices are the right ones.  I'll walk you through the strategies one by one and give you invaluable solutions to some of the most common problems that plague families of divorce.  pdf format 120 pages

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Essentially, stress is our reaction to change.   We know two things about change- 1) People don't typically like change and (2) Change is inevitable and constant.  That means we are left to deal with something we don't much like on an ongoing basis.  Here's the thing:  Only the death of a loved one is a more significant change than Divorce.  So, stress is a huge part of the divorce process.  When you're ready... I'm going to show you how to deal with stress in a highly effective way.  After 15 years working in the mental health field, I can safely say that stress is one of the most common issues for which people seek help.  Sometimes they call it something else like anxiety, or a feeling of helplessness, depression, or feeling overwhelmed. There is no doubt stress creates more problems for people than most anything else. When we’re “stressed out” our mental and physical well being are at risk, our relationships get strained, and we often become less productive at work and at home.   Over the years I've developed a highly effective system for not just managing stress, but effectively reducing how it impacts lives.  I want to share that system with you!  So, I've put together a great guide- Stress Containment for Superheroes: Fantastic Tools for Dealing with Life's Challenges. What would 50 Powerful Strategies for Managing Stress be worth to you?  Would you pay $1 for each?  That would be a bargain.  Most therapy sessions run between $80 and $150 per hour.  A dollar per tip would be well worth it.  But, I'm not going to charge you $1 for each.   Download the ebook Stress Containment for Superheroes© and immediately begin applying the techniques!  Need another reason to order now?  How about 20 BONUS TOOLS!  That's right, order now and get 50 tools plus 20 bonus tools.  "Stress Containment for Superheroes- Fantastic Tools for Dealing with Life's Challenges" is a fresh approach to an age old problem.  Now you can have 70 strategies, not just bullet points, for dealing with stress in an effective manner.  pdf format 47 pages

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I'm going to show you step-by-step exactly what to do and say (and not do and say!) to immediately improve your relationship with your ex-spouse, even if you're the only one who wants things to change....

I bet you're more than ready to eliminate your ex-spouse's ridiculous behavior!  But, you see no hope of that ever happening, right?  In fact, I bet you gave up on a cooperative relationship with your ex a long time ago.  More than anything else, I bet you would like to have a good relationship with your ex-spouse.  Well, you should!  That’s where I come in.  I’ve been helping divorced couples improve their post marital relationship for years.  During my time as a family therapist I've discovered exactly what works and what doesn’t work in divorced relationships.  Keep reading and I’ll show you exactly what to say and do to drastically change your relationship with your ex-spouse.  Before I can give you those specifics, you need to understand exactly what you’re up against.  Believe it or not, your biggest hurdle is likely yourself.  I know, that sounds strange, but how you approach things is vital to turning it all around.  That’s right, our own worthless strategies often prevent a positive relationship with an ex-spouse.  Un-cooperative ex-spouses can make the difficult process of divorce nearly impossible to deal with.  Most of us would agree that even with a cooperative ex-spouse, divorce takes every ounce of energy to survive.  Unfortunately, many divorcees face years of headaches and heartaches as they attempt to navigate the process with a difficult or even impossible ex-spouse.  Interestingly, many of those same divorcees who have problematic exes could make things much easier on themselves by following a few simple strategies.  But, most frequently, mistake after mistake is made with an ex-spouse and too often that intensifies the conflicts and difficulties. 10 Strategies that Never work; 10 Strategies to immediately change your relationship with your ex; How to change your perspective; How to gain a sense of control in this relationship; Specific words to use that will change how you communicate; Specific “deal breaker” words that end effective communication; Why most advice from family and friends makes things worse; How to get out of your own way and get what you want; The One thing you Can do that will Change things Immediately.  I'm a licensed professional counselor who has logged hundreds of hours with divorced individuals and couples and I've learned what works and what doesn't work.  I've taken the very best of what I've learned and crammed it into this incredible guide.  The best part of all is the price.  It's well below what I could justify asking for it.   pdf format 56 pages

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Audio CD Version of How to Instantly Improve Your Relationship with Your Ex-Spouse- Approximately 75 minutes

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